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PageThree of Re-entry: comment, angst, expectation, and homesickness from abroad and affirmation from those on-island reaping the Aotearoa soil on return. REAP (Re-Entry Action Plan) is the NZEDGE kit-set in the making for the returning. This forum is a first step in its formulation. To read the tales of home and away (August 2002 - March 2003) click on the links below. 

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See below for further Re-entry/Coming home missives:

January 2004 - August 2005 (14 messages)
April 2003 - October 2003 (13 messages)
August 2002 - March 2003
(7 messages)  
July 2002 - September 2002
(10 messages) 
April 2002 - June 2002
(22 messages)
   

 

 

 

 

Promo Producer, London, UK, 33
Why, as returning Kiwis, do we presume to possess more skills and experience than our friends and colleagues who have remained at home? Perhaps it's our condescension that stops that phone from ringing...

While we complain about NZers' insular attitudes, should we not also examine our own prejudices against those who choose not to travel? What's so wrong with being happy with what you have, and where you are?
    

Promo What's so wrong with being happy with what you have, and where you are?
    

Director, Canterbury, NZ, 50
I re, search for compatible businesses, whatever. E-mail: 
  
    

Director, Canterbury, NZ, 50
I returned a long time ago, but wanted to put a thought out for consideration, or maybe even absorbtion. Perhaps some who are coming home may consider whether your jobs are portable. Maybe you could perform a role for your present company or business, through the advantage of our parallel universe, the opposite 24 hours. Could you be of benefit to them, working over their night period in completing work, contracts or perhaps quality control, and delivering projects that have been done when you are fresh, over the Web?

You may even continue being paid in Pounds, Dollars or Euros! What a great boost for NZ, and huge benefit for the returning champion as well. Email me if you think this may apply to you, and there is anything I can do to facilitate it for you - office space, technology, search for compatible businesses, whatever. E-mail: tim.deans@xtra.co.nz
  
    

 

 

 

 

Journalist, London, UK, 46
I ran away from NZ 14 years ago to escape rugby, sailing, small town attitudes and blind patriotism. In my first years off-island, I avoided Kiwis as much as possible apart from one or two close friends, but it didn't work. I am now a confirmed All Blacks fan, deeply worried about the Americas Cup and know clearly that big city minds aren't more intelligent - they're just small town minds making more noise. And there are worse thing than small towns.

So it does indeed appear that you always take the weather with you even if you don't want to. Blind patriotism I'll never be comfortable with but I do now know that I am a New Zealander and will never take it for granted again. Three times of intense NZ-related memory stand out from the many, many other different experiences I have stored since leaving. 

The first was watching the Jumbos's wheels leave the runway at Auckland airport (and, as a Southlander, I have no love of Auckland). It was the first step in a long journey back home but I didn't know it then. However, I knew sharply and vaguely (if possible at the same time) that something wasn't quite right. 

The second was lying in the middle of an all- night firefight between Croat and Bosnian militias. I decided I should have been a bank clerk in Invercargill like my mother said and promised myself I would check the Sits Vac in the Southland Times first thing in the morning - if I ever got there. The paper isn't delivered to Travnik, central Bosnia so I never got to fulfil that promise.

The third was my first trip back in five years and walking out onto the very same Auckland runway. It was an unexpected sensory and memory overload of staggering intensity. Like some of the other Re-entry entries have commented, I never knew cow shit, estuary mud and Auckland in general could smell, look and feel so sweet.
That heightened perception stayed with me for the four weeks as I journeyed down to Fiordland where I worked for several years in the 70s and 80s.

I used to say frequently to English friends that NZ was OK but "you can't eat scenery" (in many ways that is acknowledged by the comments here about how hard it is to find work on returning). Now, I'm not so sure. A healthy existence with an intelligent perspective on life requires regular and easy access to a bit of sunset/ocean/mountain gazing. The things the "cultured" big city anywhere does to human behaviour is not any sort of standard to aspire to.
I recall the Air NZ guy who - again on that first visit back - spent at least an hour sorting out the best and cheapest tickets for my itinerary around the country. He sold me the third most expensive option. I kept wondering, where was the catch? Why was he spending all this time on me? Did he want a tip? Where was the rip-off?

Still, I'm constantly checking myself to stop seeing NZ through the rose-tinted glasses of memory and childhood. It ain't like that anymore and never will be. And that is the way it should be. I suspect that much of what annoys, irritates and depresses NZedge correspondents, including myself, about life off-shore exists back home too. Just in diluted doses. But Jeez, I do miss that can-do, my glass is half-full attitude, a sea with a decent wave and a mountain with a proper ridge.

The plan is to return in five year's time and it's not going to be easy. E-mail: pauadog@hotmail.com
       

Events Organiser, London, UK 
I'm homesick. I'm homesick for the infallible attitude, atmosphere and environment I used to take for granted. It is near impossible to describe... it's that uniqueness that can primarily only be gauged once you've experienced other, varying cultures and patriotism. I admit that I have had to learn that New Zealand is my favourite place... I know others are yet to discover the same and it's a shame most have to leave the country to do so. It's taken me three years of living in the UK. I often, speak of home to my foreign friends, which brings a smile to my face and a myriad of tales to the fore. I think I'm going to head home next year. Maybe. Is New Zealand the amazing place that I remember? Goddam hope so.
        

Consultant, Chicago, USA, 33
We are seriously considering returning to NZ in the near future as a natural alternative life direction as you might develop when a current opportunity shuts down and a natural selection of alternatives for consideration needs to be developed.

Of interest is that the only reason that we can now consider a return to NZ is that we have through our success in our careers been able to amas sufficient wealth to be financially independent in NZ. This is important as the value placed on an hour of our time in NZ is worth a fraction of what that some amount of effort is worth overseas, essentially cancelling out the possiblilty of returning to a job. As a result the only way that we can consider returning to NZ is to develop our own businesses in NZ to ensure that we are able to get returns based on our time and investment.

In evaluating our options a number of issues have sprung up. My question is whether there a source of information that will assist us in determining the pros and cons of returning to NZ.

Some example of questions are:
-Taxes on shipping in house hold effects
-Neglected student loan
-Repatriation of wealth generated overseas
-Issues we haven't considered

Any suggested information sources or forums?
      

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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Project Manager to Artist/ Entrepreneur, Greytown, NZ, 34
My partner and I have just returned after living in Sydney for four years and prior to that I spent a few years living and working around Europe. We CHOSE to come home. WHY! Sit and close your eye's, smell, touch, taste, hear, now open your eyes and see! There's no place like HOME!

We now live in Greytown where we have bought an old villa and converted it into a Interactive Contemporary Art Gallery / Bookshop. Yep it's small, it doesnt feel plastic and it's all ours. The local yokels are delightful. I can smell cow shit from the middle of town. And guess what I am taking my business Interactive Art Events and Personal Art Facilitation to the world from little old Greytown. Thanks NZ for bringing us home! If you want to talk e-mail me. trilogynz@yahoo.com
      

Tertiary Educator, Sydney, Australia, 39
Well, I hate to be a party-pooper for NZ Edge and New Zealand but I did not bring my family (from Thailand) to NZ as originally planned up to 1998. Instead in 1999 we settled in Sydney.

I believe that after years in New York or London or another place, well-educated ex-pat Kiwis can no longer truly fit in (in NZ). And as some people have commented, once your sojourn away has been a long time your networks have ceased to be, family maybe dispersed and in my case parents dead.

So we wanted to be near family and friends (in NZ) so Sydney it was after an exploratory visit in 1998. My wife is Asian and could find her ethnic suburbs (to shop in at least), she had relatives here and so did I. Although I had never lived in Sydney before it was a familiar environment, not really foreign at all.

On a flight to Bangkok in 1998 from Sydney we were thinking the same thing independantly: next home Sydney. I am glad we came, we are thriving, have made new friends and kept some old, we have had another baby!

Kiwis cannot make this move so easily now if they have a non-NZ or Australian spouse like me because as of March 2001 we are no longer automatic permanent residents on arrival. I could sponsor my wife easily for permanent residency, now the NZ person would have to apply for PR themselves first (even though Kiwis can work straightaway and do not need a work permit). The process would take much longer but maybe would still be worth it.

Nevertheless, I would encourage ex-pat Kiwis to look beyond the sentimental dream of NZ and consider Australia (meaning really Sydney or Melbourne - maybe Brisbane or Perth). It is a more realistic option than Auckland, a "budget smaller Sydney" and no extensive suburban train network; the rest of NZ's cities are too small and offer poor work opportunities. For those with an Asian spouse, well I have no doubt WE are in the right place!

So, sorry to be a party-pooper but for us, NZ was quickly eliminated for a better "return home" option. The main problem moving to Sydney is the housing cost, but that would be no problem for cashed-up ex-pats in the USA or the UK (or Western Europe). So is New Zealand really the place for you after a long time away? email: jprenouf@bigpond.com
        

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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Click here to have your say. See below for further Re-entry/Coming home missives:

December 2003 - August 2005 (14 messages)
April 2003 - October 2003
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August 2002 - March 2003
(7 messages)  
July 2002 - September 2002
(10 messages) 
April 2002- June 2002
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